Brides and bridesmaids always receive plenty of attention for their dress choices, but what about the groom’s and groomsmen’s outfits? They are just as significant when it comes contributing to the overall aesthetic of the wedding. But how high up the list are the groom and his entourage on your wedding attire plans? Here’s a guide to help you with the options and considerations when picking out suits for this often overlooked part of the wedding party.
Planning ahead: essential prep work
Before you go suit shopping, take a moment to define your wedding’s colour palette, aesthetic and theme. This will make shopping easier and ensure everyone looks their best on the big day. Think ahead to all those group photos, especially those where there’s just the bride and groom’s parties, or both sets of grooms for same-sex marriages. Whether you’re aiming for a rustic barn wedding, a chic city affair or a relaxed beachfront celebration, this prep can guide your decision-making.
Who foots the bill?
One of the first questions many couples face is who pays for the groomsmen’s suits. Traditionally, the groomsmen are responsible for purchasing or renting their own attire. However, some couples opt to cover these costs themselves.
Generally speaking, if the couple want something fancy that is unlikely to be worn again, they should probably expect to pay, at least a contribution. If it’s more generic, such as suits that can be worn in the future for events or even for work, it’s probably reasonable to ask the groomsmen to pay for their suits. If possible, place the entire suit order simultaneously to potentially benefit from group discounts.
None of this is set in stone, however. Every wedding is different – a working-class wedding will have different expectations to an aristocratic one. If it’s your wedding, discuss this with your partner early on to avoid any awkwardness when the time comes to start kitting out the groomsmen.
Timing: placing your order
It’s vital that you place your order for suits or tuxedos well in advance of your wedding day. To be safe, order a few months beforehand. It not only ensures timely arrival – it gives you enough time for any alterations. A little forward planning goes a long way in preventing last-minute stress.
Remember … those vital statistics can start to expand a little during the Christmas and barbecue seasons. You might have to impose a little discipline on the groomsmen’s food and drink intake!
Accessorising: the finishing touches
No suit or tuxedo look is complete without the right accessories. Belts or braces, ties or bow ties, waistcoats, pocket squares and cufflinks all add charm and character to the ensemble. But unless everyone is different to each other on purpose (e.g. every groomsman has their own colour of pocket square and tie), it’s best to make sure everyone’s the same.
If possible, decide on a colour scheme that goes with the bridesmaids’ dresses – either matching or coordinating in a complementary hue. If you’re renting suits, confirm with the store what accessories are included in the package. Some packages might come with extras like ties and pocket squares, while others may require you to get them separately.
Rent or buy your wedding attire?
Deciding whether to rent or buy suits for the big day is a personal choice. Renting is often more affordable and convenient, especially for groomsmen who may not have another occasion to wear a suit soon. Rentals also provide a one-stop shop for a coordinated look.
On the other hand, buying a suit allows for customisation and superior fit. A purchased suit can be tailored, ensuring a perfect fit and greater comfort. And of course, the suit is always there in the wardrobe to wear another day. Basically, it all comes down to budget and how likely you are to be wearing a suit in the near future. If you get a great value, high quality suit, you’re always going to find occasions to wear it again.
Tuxedo or suit? Making the decision
Choosing between a tuxedo and a suit often boils down to the formality of your wedding.
Tuxedos are the epitome of classic sophistication and are particularly suitable for black-tie events. The satin details on the lapels and side stripes on trousers set them apart from regular suits. Accessories such as bow ties, cumme*rbunds and cufflinks complete the timeless tux look.
Suits offer more versatility and have become the go-to choice for most wedding parties. They can easily be adapted to both formal and casual settings. A suit also gives opportunities for personalisation – think bold-patterned ties or trendy trainers for a modern twist.
Colour choices: beyond the basics
When selecting suit colours, there are no strict rules. That lets you tailor your choices to fit your wedding theme. Black suits are timeless on the wedding scene. However, shades of grey, blue and even tan offer stylish alternatives.
- Black suits are perfect for traditional weddings, thanks to their elegance and versatility.
- Grey suits are available in a spectrum from light to dark, and can match nearly any colour scheme and venue. A grey tweed is a classic option.
- Tan suits work well in the summer, and offer coolness and relaxation, especially for outdoor weddings.
- Blue suits add a dash of elegance, whether navy to lighter hues, and can make your wedding party stand out brilliantly.
- Pastel shades are superbly extravagant and can make the groomsmen stand out from the crowd. Consider a fresh mint green or a subtle pink for a cool look. Why not give each groomsman his own colour?
Tips for groomsmen attire
Match the vibe: Ensure the suits complement your wedding venue. Polished grey suits fit an urban setting beautifully, while classic tuxedos are ideal for grand ballroom receptions.
Coordinate with bridesmaids: Once bridesmaids’ outfits are chosen, pick groomsmen’s accessories that align with those colours. This coordination helps maintain a unified look.
Make sure the groom stands out: The groom’s outfit should distinguish him from his groomsmen. Consider varying his suit’s colour, adding unique accessories, or even changing up small details like his tie or buttonhole.
Your perfect wedding ensemble awaits
The groom’s and groomsmen’s suits are just one more thing on a lengthy list of to-dos for your wedding day. But with a little planning and coordination, you can make sure yours are a success on the day and in the album. Have a look at our wedding collection for more inspiration.
